With this new feature, we present some of the wonderful stories that seniors (55-plus) have to share. Interested in contributing your own memories? Please do! Send us an email!
Joanne Shimotakahara: Internment
Despite the upheaval and hardship, my parents managed to carve out a new life. My father got a job at Stelco. Working in the steel mills was not good for his lungs, but miraculously, he lived until he was 90. My mother lived to 102. She always used to say to us, “I wonder why Dad died so early.”
James FitzGerald: A horse, a vaccine and a laneway
Crestfallen Lane, which runs behind Barton Ave. near Toronto’s Christie Pits, commemorates an old mare, bought in 1913 for $3 by my grandfather Dr. John (Gerry) FitzGerald.
Betty Ferrie: A hard time in TO
I worked for eight years at 35 Yonge, which was TTC headquarters, on the north side of Front. The building sadly was torn down in the late 1950s.
Joanne Shimotakahara: How Mom learned to cook
Gil Carty: My Great Aunt Jean McKenzie
When I was little, I was intimidated by my Great Aunt Jean McKenzie! She seemed so big. She was experienced with kids – she had been a nanny to Eaton family children – and got a charge out of scaring me. When I called her a giant, she’d take a few steps toward me, threaten to bite my head off and send me scurrying.
She really was a giant in terms of her accomplishments as a Jamaican immigrant to Toronto in the 1920s. By the early 1940s, she had saved enough to buy a large house on Beverley St. She turned it into accommodation for sleeping car porters and others. The multi-talented celebrity Paul Robeson stayed there; he couldn’t get a hotel room because of the racial climate at the time. The porters probably directed him to my aunt’s.
The place was always busy. Our family, which then included cousins and grandfather, lived on one floor in the 1950s while my parents waited to buy their Scarborough home. My mother was a seamstress in the garment district; my father, a porter.
They had met at my aunt’s house, where my mother came to stay after leaving Jamaica at 18. My father, from New Brunswick, had left the air force and was living around the corner at University Settlement House. I was born in 1950.
I have some vivid memories of life at my aunt’s. I used to share my mother’s bed because my father was on the trains. Once, I awoke, mistook clothes on the bedpost for a man and alerted my mother. She screamed, and my grandfather came running. After that, I never slept in her bed again.
One Sunday morning in 1955, I awoke to smell smoke from the smoldering ruins of St. George the Martyr, a Black church in downtown. It had caught fire during the night.
I also remember chicken feet hanging in the back shed. My aunt made soup out of them, but they gave me the creeps.
My aunt was a generous, considerate woman. Preparing to return to Jamaica in the early 1970s, she sold her house and left money to a loyal Hungarian tenant to make sure he would be all right.
Lois Broad: A Cottage Odyssey
I noticed in the newspaper the other day how Oro Station is set to become a destination for car enthusiasts. That’s where our cottage used to be, and let me tell you what it was like driving there in the 1930s
In 1912, my father was persuaded by a friend Mr. Jackson to buy some property from him. He had purchased a farm near Oro Station, which he had subdivided into lots for cottages on Lake Simcoe. He named it Barrilia Park as it was halfway between Barrie and Orillia.
My father, with local help, spent the summer of 1912 building the cottage. He, Mother and my brother, who was 18 months old, lived in the barn. My mother said when it rained, she had to hold an umbrella over the baby because the barn leaked.
I was born in 1927, so my memories of the trip from Toronto to Oro Station came later. My father, who taught at Humberside Collegiate, had a 1928 Oldsmobile. There were no trunks on the cars in those days, and everything needed for the summer had to be transported. A dunnage bag, similar to a hockey bag, was tied to each front fender. The running board, which had an expandable gate attached, was filled. Sheets and pillows were sat upon in the car, three people in front, three in back.
Inevitably, there would be at least one or two flat tires enroute, which meant the whole car had to be unloaded. My father had to jack up the car so as to remove the tire. The hole in the inner tube had to be found. It was then patched with a piece of rubber, glued in place and then reassembled. (We had an essential tire-patching kit.) Then, of course, the whole car had to be repacked. And we would be on our way.
Sheila McIlraith: Being a “Farmerette”
During the war years in Ontario, girls worked as “farmerettes,” helping to pick the crops. I started when I was 13 in Grade 9.
Before I was old enough to go away for the summer, I remember going to Jane and Bloor and being picked up. We would stand in the back of a truck, maybe eight or 10 of us, and just hold on to the edges as we bounced along to market gardens, probably in the Clarkson area. We cut celery and pulled radishes. Can you imagine letting kids do that nowadays?
The first summer in Niagara I worked at the Inniskillin farm, which grew peaches back then and is now a winery. That was a wonderful summer with great food and long hours. We worked from 7 in the morning until 10 at night, picking peaches during the day and packing them at night. We worked seven days a week, with no days off unless it was rainy. We earned $3.50 a week, with room and board.
Peaches have much less fuzz now than they did. I remember once getting a terrible peach fuzz rash and actually having to go to the hospital. I was sick and feverish. They gave me something, I don’t know what it was, but it worked.
As a treat at Inniskillin, the boss took us to the Fort Erie race track and gave us $5, which was a handsome sum of money, to bet on the horses. I lost all my money very quickly, probably the first race.
I also worked three summers in St. Davids near Niagara Falls. In the third year, they trained a small group of us to do grafting. You could have a good strong peach tree and have different varieties on it. So I remember learning how to graft.
As a farmerette, I never felt hard done by because everybody else was doing it. And you know, even now, I never regret any of the jobs I had. I learned very early on, the value of money and the value of hard work and doing a good job. It’s something that’s central to my whole being.
Helga Schuliakewich: Remembering Sammy
For many years, my sister and I ran the Old Country Shop on Roncesvalles. My parents opened it in the early 1960s when they came from Germany. Now my niece Sabine manages the store.
I was the first one to come to Canada in our family. I was the runaway! After the war there were so many problems in Germany. I was 18 and wanted something different, so I came here in 1953. I only had 40 German marks.
It was very hard at the beginning. Two people helped me a lot.
The first was Dr. Morris Zeidman who founded the Scott Mission. The other was Sam Sniderman – Sam the Record Man.
When I first came, there was a job open at the Scott Mission. I ended up working in Dr. Zeidman’s home for two years. I was like a daughter. He protected me. They were the nicest family.
He also helped me get a job in 1955 at Sniderman’s Music Hall, which was at 714 College St. It was run by Sam Sniderman and his older brother Syd. Syd was the first to sell car radios on College. Sam later opened his famous store Sam the Record Man on Yonge St.
Sam, I called him Sammy, we got along so well. I had never had a record in my hand before but he trusted me. I had the whole department upstairs on the second floor. I had Russian, Ukrainian, Macedonian, German, Polish, everybody, 32 languages. We had a lot of booths that you put your head in there and they played the record. We wore circle skirts with musical notes on them.
I started importing records from Polydor and Deutsche Grammophon. Sammy never had that before. We printed our own little catalogue on our printing machine and sent it out to Alberta and other places.
In 1955, my sister Karin came over. Sammy’s wife picked her up at Union Station, and Karin started helping at the store. She became an assistant manager on Yonge St. and met her husband Leonard at Sammy’s. He worked there, too.
Sammy was so kind to us. He was like a father.
Mae Couzens: The Joy of Grilled Cheese
I was born and raised in Glasgow, Scotland, until my family emigrated to Canada when I was 13 years old.
My memories of the war years are vivid, and I now wonder how my parents managed, with five children, all born in our two-room flat. Mostly, I remember I was always hungry, even after meals.
Dinner was served on a small side plate, not a usual dinner plate, and meals were “one-pot” size to feed us all. Lentil soup and veggie stew were frequent. Occasionally, chocolate biscuits were served with our mug of tea, which was finished with the milk the milkman had left outside the door that day.
In 1952, we sailed for Canada with a new addition to the family, a baby boy born to my 42-year-old mother after my dad had already left for Canada. On the ship, we gathered at the railing, all standing by mother. She took off her wedding ring and threw it overboard, saying, “Here’s to new beginnings in Canada.” When we arrived, my father had a new ring for her.
We lived in Malton in a not quite straight frame house my dad had built without blue prints. I went on a school bus to Brampton High School, and soon I had a little part-time job at the local pharmacy. It had a ‘50s soda fountain, where I learned to make a mean milk shake and fell in love with grilled cheese sandwiches.
My weekly pay was $28 a week. One day near Christmas, I stopped to look in the hardware store’s window. There it was! A bright and shiny sandwich grill. I was excited that we could make grilled cheese at home. I went into the hardware store, clutching my pay packet and asked the owner, Mr. Madgett, “How much is that cheese grill?” He told me, and I must have looked crestfallen. It was too expensive for me. Then, Mr. Madgett said, “You could get it on our lay-away plan!” Yippee! I gave him a $5 deposit and continued to do so every payday until the cheese grill was mine, wrapped and decorated with a red bow!
I gave it to Mom for Christmas, but, really, it was for me. Now I could have my own grilled cheese every dinner along with my daily purchase of one tin of Campbell’s Tomato Soup.
My mom would buy a big slab of Cheddar cheese when she went to the groceteria. Using one of those cheese slicers with a wire, I would shave off thin slices, put them between two pieces of white Wonder Bread, delivered by the bread man to our back door. I’d lightly spread margarine on the top and bottom pieces so the sandwich would toast beautifully. It came out of the grill golden brown, oozing with melted cheese. It was to die for.
I continued making my cheese sandwiches and tomato soup every day for a very long time. Buying that cheese grill to make my own meal was my first independent decision outside of the family circle, where the boys were served first and the girls were always hungry.
Colin Hefferon: My Grandfather Charles
On July 24, 113 years ago, my grandfather Charles Hefferon ran in the dramatic Olympic Marathon in London. He won a silver medal, but would likely have earned gold had it not been for an unfortunate incident near the end of the race.
On that fateful day, my grandfather was ahead by four minutes at the 24-mile mark when he gulped a drink of what turned out to be champagne from a spectator who was believed to be Toronto Star journalist, Lou Marsh. Deathly allergic to alcohol, my grandfather fell to the ground, and remained there for several minutes before he was able to get back up.
Close to White City Stadium, where 70,000 spectators waited, the Italian Dorando Pietri passed my stumbling grandfather and staggered into the stadium. He collapsed several times and was dragged by supporters across the line, only to be disqualified. Meanwhile, American runner Johnny Hayes came from behind and was subsequently awarded gold. Some commentators say that my grandfather would have regained his lead had the race continued another half mile.
I have a scrapbook full of fragile newspaper clippings about my grandfather, including an article written by Sherlock Holmes author Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, who described him as “a perfect specimen.”
My grandfather is largely forgotten in Canada, his adopted country, because he was running for South Africa in the 1908 Olympics. He had gone there with the Royal Canadian Dragoons to fight in the Boer War, married a young Afrikaans woman in 1902 and stayed until 1912.
Born in England in 1878, he emigrated to Canada at 18. He served with Canadian forces in two wars, the Boer War and WW I. He joined three police forces, including the North-West Mounted Police and the Ontario Provincial Police. He was killed in Brampton while on duty as an OPP officer when a driver collided with him on a motorcycle.
Charles Hefferon is named in a memorial for fallen police officers at Queen’s Park in Toronto. But he has never been recognized here for his extraordinary athletic achievements that put him on the Olympic podium on July 24, 1908.